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Love and Christmas vibes! The Importance of Reciprocity and Gratitude in Friendships.

Updated: Dec 23, 2023



In today's fast-paced world, we often get caught up in our own lives, overlooking the simple yet profound act of checking up on our friends. It's easy to fall into the trap of feeling neglected or forgotten, especially when we don't hear from those we care about. But here's a crucial question we should all ponder: When was the last time we reached out to them? When Did You Last Call a Friend? When Did You Last ask how your friend or their family is coping?


The Cycle of Friendship and Responsibility

Friendship is a two-way street, marked by a cycle of giving and receiving. If you find yourself feeling resentful or neglected because a friend hasn't reached out, pause and reflect. Have you made the effort to check in on them? Everyone faces struggles, and assuming that others are fine without reaching out can lead to misunderstandings, and unwarranted grudges or self-pitying. Even if the grass looks greener, on the other side, it's never without struggles.


The Power of a Simple Call

In moments when you think of someone, resist the urge to feel entitled to their attention. Instead, take that as a cue to reach out. A simple phone call, message, or even a brief meet-up can do wonders. It's not just about catching up; it's about showing that you care. This small gesture can brighten someone's day and strengthen the bond you share.


Embracing Gratitude and Letting Go of Entitlement

Gratitude plays a significant role in healthy relationships. Rather than feeling entitled to others' time and attention, appreciate the moments you do share. Life is a continuous cycle, and what seems new or troubling to you might be something your friend has experienced. Sharing these experiences can bring invaluable insights and comfort.



Conclusion: Building Stronger Bonds

Remember, everyone is navigating their own challenges. By taking the initiative to check in on your friends, you contribute to a culture of care and understanding. It's about breaking the cycle of waiting and taking that step towards nurturing your friendships. Next time you think of someone, don't wait – just call and spread a little kindness. It's a simple act, but its impact can be profound.

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